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IMDB rating: 4.70 Plot: Mackenzie Carpenter, a gorgeous 17-year-old girl who would kick your ass for saying so, thinks her biggest problem is dying of boredom in the bucolic wasteland of Orange County…that is until her classmates start dying of massive blood loss and Horny The Clown begins madly stalking her with cryptic messages hidden in 70’s kitsch toys. It isn’t until Mac discovers her unbelievable connection to Horny and his victims that she realizes, if she’s gonna live to see 18, she must come face to face with the killer clown in the bloodiest week Blanca Carne, California has ever known. |
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Actors: D’Agosto Nicholas,De La Plante Van,Campbell Larry Joe,Ganus Paul,Spurlock Morgan,Anderson III Shedrack,Badgley Penn,Courtley Cade,Cunningham Chad,Curtis Brown Robert,DeRuiter Edward,Gilbert John,Comedy,Horror,
Please please help… my boyfriend has me so confused!!?
I think I’m blinded by love maybe. This is long but I REALLY need as much advice as I can get on this one before I possibly get hurt OR worse yet, lose him when there is no reason to.
He is 30 and I am 25. We first started dating about 1 1/2 years ago whenever his wife of 10 years left him (going thru the divorce now) - he "thought" thats what he wanted. He was so into me - he would call me "baby doll" and tell me I was "his world" and he "couldn’t get enough of me" and I was "amazing" and it just kept getting better and better everyday. Well, about 3 months in, he realized he wasn’t ready and broke my heart. He started getting more and more distant and ended it new years eve. I was crushed. I think he realized he was not over her.
About 2 months after that, we started calling each other late at night for "one night stands" I guess… I did it to try to win his heart again, and it eventually worked I guess because we have now been together for 4 months seriously. He told me 5 months ago he was ready now (she came and cleared out all her stuff out of his house, etc.) and he wasn’t before, he got a lot of his life cleared up and in order and loves what we have, likes me A LOT, etc.
The thing is, this time, he calls me "babe" but thats about it… never tells me how he feels about me. I told him I loved him about a month ago and he said "I can’t say it yet. I do love you, but that means a lot to me to say it and I wear my heart in my pocket now after being hurt so much. Just give me time and someday it will slip out"… we also have a trip to Cancun scheduled for May just the two of us.
The thing is, sometimes I feel more like a "friend" to him… like he "loves me but is not IN LOVE with me" because I don’t get told what I mean to him, I don’t get told I’m his world like he told me 1 1/2 years ago, I don’t know what he feels towards me and it DRIVES ME CRAZY. I love being told what I mean to someone… and he doesn’t do that. He also stopped kissing me as much and when I asked him why he said "Huh… I don’t really know babe… I didn’t really notice"
Well, he is still loving to me… picks me up from work, agrees to spend his weekends with me still… but I think him and the ex of 10 years have started talking again… and she is messing with him again emotionally.
He was so happy around me and upbeat before… now its mellowed out and he seems like he started to about 1 1/2 years ago. Today, for instance, I didn’t hear from him all day and that hasn’t happened in the 5 months we have been together now.
I ask him whats wrong and he says nothing. But that "sparkle" in his eye is gone. It seems if I talk to him about problems, it pushes him away.
What should I do? 
I have really never felt like this with anyone… I love him to death - its unconditional. So to "let him go" will hurt like hell… and most importantly, I don’t want to regret it. What should I do?
Dump him!
Look… Just like you were the "other woman", IF you ever get him to have a normal relationship with you, there will be another "other woman". He has a commitment issue.
ronich69 | Nov 18, 2009
Why don’t you try being supportive of him instead of so focused on your needs?
He’s been hurt. Seriously hurt. Many things were established in his relationship with his wife. Things that make him who he is. And that is someone you’ve fallen in love with. You would do best by being there for him, instead of trying to feed your own needs so much. If he sees that kind of support, that will have him realizing he’s lucky to have you. And that will make the wait to hear the words ‘I love you’ come from his mouth that much more worthwhile.
STUART | Nov 18, 2009
Don’t dump him! Rent the movie, "Two can play that game," read the books "he’s just not that into you," and "The Rules," and "It’s called a breakup because it’s broken." And then….don’t take any of the advice in the movie/books literally, but DO use them to change your perspective. You see…you are a prize to be won, not the other way around. Give HIM some distance, "flip the script" as they say. Let him know that YOU’RE the one who’s not sure. Sure, it seems like a game, it is one. You’re only doing it to get your self esteem back in check. But you’ll get back the attention you want.
Now, after you have it back, here’s the important thing…be careful, analyze him for who he really is, not who you imagine him to be. Be realistic. Then make your decision.
AmandaRelion | Nov 18, 2009
I really think you should let him go….If he broke your heart once before for another woman… he’ll do it again…dont be his rebound.. because no offence but thats exactly what you are.he may call you cute names but anyone can call you babe and not have any feelings for you..id leave him. hes not worth getting hurt over again. seriously..an outsider looking in… this is not a relationship you want to be in.
Pubbles | Nov 18, 2009
Well, I’m only 16 but i’m good with sort of thing so here goes. So the fact is that your boyfriend is very likely just as confused as you are and his ex-wife probably is trying to communicate with him. Also you didn’t mention whether or not he has kids…If he does, than that is definitely adding to his confusion. But that really isn’t a bad thing because he’s struggling between what he feels is best for himself and what is best for his kids. That really is indirectly a good sign if you plan on raising a family with him. I’m sure he’s in love with you, but just isn’t quite ready to express it. That could be because he had a failed marriage with someone he loved, but it just came to fail in the end. But I really believe that he’ll come around when he ends his confusion, so just try to be understanding and patient and don’t press him. Just be loving to him which should allow him to get closer to you.
Best of luck,
Jonathan
Jonathan | Nov 18, 2009
Remain calm and quit asking him what is wrong. He is a guy and guys just act like that. He is good to you and he just isn’t ready to let his entire world be a woman again. He probably really didn’t notice that he doesn’t kiss you as often. You said that you feel more like his friend. Well, the best relationships are built off of being able to be friends more than lovers. When our anatomy seizes to work correctly and gravity takes over like the end of the world we need our best friend. It sounds like he is trying to do this relationship right. Not like the first one where he was married by 20 and probably rushed into it. The sparkle that is missing is called the rebound spark. We all get it when we get out a long term relationship and find the person to rebuild our egos a little. It feels wonderful and in most cases it is just that, a rebound. Feel lucky that he thought twice about you and possibly saw a future wife and somebody to keep around. If he is still talking to the ex you are going to have to let him go through that. They may have a child together and removing a person from one’s life after 10 years is difficult to do.
jacalynfreeborn | Nov 18, 2009
there is definitely something wrong with him dont loose hope something is seriously depressing him if you have to show your there for him and if it takes time for him to slowly let his guard down so be it but you will need to ask yourself are you willing to wait
Darth V | Nov 18, 2009
I’m sorry my friend, but you are the rebound girl/other woman, and he’s not that into you and probably still has unresolved feelings towards his ex.
Unless you are willing to play second best to his ex wife, I would let this one go.
Best wishes and take care xx
Just another Avatar | Nov 18, 2009
There isn’t much history between the two of you, and it sounds like from the first time that you dated, he was really into you…maybe that scared him. Has he ever talked about his marriage with his soon-to-be-ex-wife? Also, if there are children involved in the divorce, he could have concerns about them as well. I met my husband months after he had yet again broken up with his ex-fiancee, and he was sooo clingy for a guy, it was unbelievable, I thought it was a joke or something, because he is 9 years older than me. Then I found out he had 2 kids about a month after we met, and we’d been spending a lot of time together at that point. Then once I met his kids a few months later, he gave me the cold shoulder every time they were visiting him. Wouldn’t answer or return my calls, wouldn’t invite me to do things with them. There was a lot more to it at the time, but it was frustrating because I was willing to accept the fact that he had children, which he deliberately kept a secret from me, and I found out from someone else. I was 18 at the time and he was 26, I had so many other better things that I could have been doing then spending my free time with a 26 year old and his 2 kids…but that is where I wanted to be, and it hurt my feelings that he didn’t want me around. There has to be something else going on with your guy if he’s changed his tune like this. If he’s not willing to give you something to ease your mind, tell him that you may need some time for yourself now, and see what he says. Based on his reaction, you may be able to decipher his dilemma, and though it may be hard, limit your contact with him so that he knows that you’re hurt by the way he’s acting. If he really cares about you in the ways he expressed before, then he will take this very seriously, and if he doesn’t take it seriously, then you need a new man honey.
Mariah | Nov 18, 2009
First you need to have a serious talk about how you feel with him. It can’t be fixed if he doesn’t know how you feel. If he just pushes it away, call him out on it, but don’t be too pushy. If he really refuses to talk about it, he most likely really doesn’t care. If he really is talking to his ex, this is the second time and he doesn’t really DESERVE another chance, but it’s ultimately up to you. I personally think if he truly was happy with you and loved you, he would just blow his ex off because he realizes that he has something way better now. If this cycle continues, it’s not worth it to torture yourself over it. There’s someone else out there that will treat you like a queen.
Maddy_Lynn | Nov 18, 2009