Christmas Vacation
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IMDB rating: 7.20 Plot: It’s Christmas time and the Griswolds are preparing for a family seasonal celebration, but things never run smoothly for Clark, his wife Ellen and their two kids. Clark’s continual bad luck is worsened by his obnoxious family guests, but he manages to keep going knowing that his Christmas bonus is due soon. |
Actors: Chase Chevy,Galecki Johnny,Randolph John,Marshall E.G.,Quaid Randy,Burger Cody,Hickey William,McMurray Sam,Comedy,
I don't know what I should do?
So I’ve had the same best friend since 7th grade..I’m now a freshman but I don’t think our friendship is going too well..
Over the summer I moved away, and a lot happened while I was gone. My best friend was basically in a abusive relationship I guess you could say. Her boyfriend pressured her to have sex, even though she told him over and over that she wasn’t ready. One day he just basically forced himself on her, and then a few hours later he broke up with her.
I moved back over christmas vacation, and I have been trying to be as good a friend as I can be. Many of her old friends have turned against her because the don’t know the full story so they all think she’s a whore. She made plenty of new friends but I don’t really know any of them. I’ve tried to fit in with them but it’s just not working.
She has been very distant and depressed ever since what happened with her ex boyfriend. And i have been understanding and as helpful as possible. But lately she has been totally ignoring me.
Like she barely ever talks to me at school, and if theres someone else hanging out with us she will pretty much only talk to them. And today at lunch she pretty much ditched me to talk to this other girl. So I confronted her about it and she says that the girl pulled her away because she had to tell her something…
I don’t really have many other friends there because i basically gave up most of my old friends because they were being mean to my best friend. So thats why I always hang around her. I know she’s been distant lately because she is so depressed..but it’s making me feel horrible and i dunno what to do.
Am I overthinking this situation? or being unfair? I’m not sure what to think or do. Is it time to find new friends?
Some more info on our friendship..
1.We like all the things and think the same way
2.we’ve had like a super close relationship, like she’s the best friend i’ve ever had. So i dont wanna lose her.
3.we were inseparable up until this summer.
Find some new friends…but be there for her when she comes around.
Just put your focus on others right now in the friends department. I am guessing the newer people don’t remind her of what she has been through and may seem more appealing.
Give her some space to heal but let her know you want to be her friend and will be there when she is ready.
Kelli M | Feb 02, 2010
hmm well yeah this would be tough situation and im really sorry about that. I think if shes pushing you away like that you should give her some space. ask someone that you kind of know if they want to hang out with you at lunch,( because you wouldnt want to be by yourself )and they might apprectiate it too, if they are possibly going through friend/boyfriend troubles (and everyone does). then soon your friend will recognize that she hasnt seen you for a while, shell probably ask what happened and you can explain to her what you tried to before but dont try to blame her since shes already feeling down. it is hard her being kind of raped and shes just lashing out at you because she knows you can handle it. dont let it get to you. be a good friend and watch out for her but keep your distance for while. hope i helped.
Rema A | Feb 02, 2010
